If you’re setting up an adult friends list, you have to remember that you’re not just putting together a little black book. I know a lot of guys have their little black book of tried and proven pussy. It’s like their rolodex of carnal pleasure.

Well, that’s just one part of the process. You have to understand that sex is not just about availability. Sure, this woman is going to give up the pussy to you, but the problems is what kind of price are you willing to pay? If you’re going to have to listen to all her bullshit and her drama, you’re paying quite a high price, my friend. Similarly, if you’re going to be cheating behind her boyfriend or husband’s back, your physical safety may be on the line.

You have to always understand that there is no such thing as a freebie. The free lunch has yet to be invented. There is always a price that you are paying. Similarly, if you think that this woman is always going to give you the pussy, you might be paying with your most important asset. I am of course talking about your time. For every minute you spend with this woman, you could’ve spent it developing the friendship and a potential sexual relationship with somebody better. Do you see how this all works out?

The number 1 skill that you need with any kind of adult friends list is proper time management. Your time is your most important possession. You have to be very responsible and strategic regarding how you use it. This is why you have to be methodical in putting together your list. If you feel that you’re compromising because you’re banging a woman because you can’t have sex with anybody else, do yourself and her a big favor and get her off your list. It really is that simple, just be sure to always check out the terms.